Originally Posted by
Mango212 
Hi Awal,
It seems to be a stalemate.
He had the disease of alcoholism telling him there isn't a problem. We wind up with the disease telling us the alcoholic is the problem.
There is a solution is finding a path of recovery for ourselves. This, counterintuitively, has nothing to do with the alcoholic.
"I can't think my way into right acting, but I can act my way into right thinking."
so youre saying they hide booze and drink secretly but dont know its a problem...their mind tricks them that its normal behaviour???