He's not just hiding drinks from you, he's in total denial, that's a two-fold problem there.
As for the miracle bottle of brandy, if you ever want to sell it i'll buy it. I don't drink brandy but I bet I could get top dollar for a self-filling bottle!!
I hear a lot of resentment in your posts and sadness and anger. Those are all normal, of course, but they are no way to live. Not that we all have to be having fun and excitement and giggly happiness all the time but without contentment - well it just sucks.
He has become the enemy?