Good for you and welcome, this place will get you sober if you let it. It got me sober.
I was and am very similar to you - I have a wonderful wife and small kids, professional etc. All the things that matter and are of value in this life can be lost to the booze. Putting booze away for good, though it took a long time for me and was difficult, is the greatest gift I could have given myself, and thereby given to everyone else in my life.
There's much wisdom and support here. What is your plan?