Originally Posted by
MCESaint 
I don't "complain" about my struggles and feelings of being lonely to her -- unless she raises it with me first. I'm NOT the shoulder to cry on about those things -- because the position she is in right now is one of her own making and one that I warned her about repeatedly in the past.
MCE Saint
Yes, please don't think for one second that I don't get it, I do and it is totally and completely unfair, unbalanced and - yeah you already know.
Just an outside perspective.