Originally Posted by
Sasha1972 
OKatz nailed it.
Ahh, what I meant to say: "Not all relationships with addicts are abusive. Some are. In those cases, willingness to stay is more of a choice."
What I meant to say is that "in the cases where the addict is not abusive, the willingness to stay is more of a choice." There were some words missing. Sometimes abuse makes your choices seem invisible.
Guess I didn't nail it.