I also totally agree with this statement and this is because of my own personal experience. My husband loved me so much but he was so confused and scared over my behavior. He had to live with someone he loved yet try and distance himself from what seemed like an inevitable train wreck. I know I felt utterly helpless at times but so did he. I have been sober since May 2018 and I am so grateful that he has regained his trust in our relationship. Not just for me but for his mental health as well.