Originally Posted by
Michelle4110 
I’ve been by his side through all of his struggles,and even when he was arrested last week for trafficking meth and heroin,I was going to stick with him and get him the help he needed. BUT recently I discovered he had been cheating on me. Not with just one person,but multiple girls. Trying to go to their house,dirty pictures and telling one of them he loved them. All while I sat at home worried to death that he was dying somewhere from an overdose. I’m pregnant with his baby also. I’ve decided to cut things completely off with him,but I’m so angry and hurt that he didn’t give a crap about me.
Its not like he even even told me he was done with me,he told me multiple times he loved me and when I told him if he’d like to separate,just tell me. It was always no,I wanna be with you,etc. Then had the nerve to ask if I’d stick with him while he was in jail. Ugh. Rant over. I’m just so upset with him ever since I found out.
Michelle...
Welcome to the Board. I'll be brief in my remarks.
His actions are not ones of a man who is committed to you. Nor are they ones of a man who is committed to the family unit. Full-stop. You've got every right to be angry.
That said, don't allow your anger to cloud your judgment.
Allow yourself to know what you know. He's an addict, he's unfaithful, and he's unable to be what you need him to be. Based on that, if you kicked him loose, you won't find anyone here at this corner of SR that'll challenge that decision. Sometimes a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do.