actually i did take the time to read your backstory - drug use, paraphernalia in the home, disappearing acts, lying, stealing.......heroic attempt on your part to get him into rehab, where he lasted about a day........all in about 8 months? life with a committed drug addict who has no desire to quit.
NOW you can be free of his insanity.
NOW you can create a safe, peaceful life for yourself and your child.