Some advice. Tomorrow I am leaving for 10 days to visit my elderly parents. It so happens that they drink every day. Around my witching hour, my dad will no doubt say, "You want a glass of wine"? I have to muster enough strength to resist. My parents have a touch of dementia so that same question will come up every day I am there for the 10 days. On top of that, my unemployed, alcoholic, drug addict 56-year old brother lives there too. I only see my parents 2X a year to check on them, straighten out meds, do projects around the house, make sure bills are paid etc. "Oh, Jesus take the wheel..."