Originally Posted by
AutumnMama 
Haha, yeah. I mean, if we were having an otherwise normal marriage, I can see talking to a therapist about things like that. It just seems absurd to mention stuff like that with everything else that's going on. But he has to have his time to speak, too. But yeah, I made some weird faces when he said those things.
Oh AutumnMama, you button ignorer you!
Well, just so you know, I care and I'm really glad you posted an update. It is helpful for everyone I think and I think atalose makes a very good point about the relationship with alcohol.
Truly the perceptions in a relationship where addiction is present are different (sometimes hugely different). It does vary but perhaps, if you get nothing else out of these sessions, you get some truth. Now it may be skewed truth as we see it out in the "normie" world, but you get to hear first hand how he really thinks and having someone else present for that can only be helpful.