Hey back.
I wasn't sober when I came here either. In fact, I wasn't for quite awhile.
But I kept coming here, and going to AA where I was still drinking too, until I wanted to get sober more than I wanted to drink.
Things are going to get under your skin. One of those for me was drinking, or rather recovering from drinking. I was a heavy drinker and the hangovers were gruesome. That got under my skin.
Things finally clicked. The only way for me was complete abstinence .
Good by hang overs.
Things get under my skin most every day, but now I can handle them sober.
I wish the same for you.