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Yes I hear that a lot, they can be very different when sober. Although would have been nice to have made that choice for myself. You seem to be getting good perspective from it all.
I'm trying although sometimes I feel like I might be talking lines where my heart isn't yet. Need to get them to match up. But I've always been a very goal-oriented person and sometimes something as simple as writing down "Don't look back" and checking it off everyday helps.
I am seeing his aunt Friday to drop off some boxes I had promised. I'm still wavering on the "tell, don't tell" but I wanted to say goodbye. I really liked her and was looking forward to getting to know her better but she is also moving soon out of my city so at least there's not that dangling bit.
"Payback for walking out" - do you think your walking out at all helped him finally get to rehab?