Originally Posted by
PalmerSage 
Happy birthday! Honestly, I would steer clear of these folks for a while. It sounds like your husband is supportive and understanding, which is great...no need to put yourself in situations which unnecessarily upset you, especially when you are doing something so positive.
Agreed. I haven’t been to a bar since I stopped drinking and only went so we didn’t have the party at our house. Hubby’s an alcoholic drinker so we are with these people a lot - although less than when I was still drinking. I won’t be going back to the bars anytime soon!