Originally Posted by
atalose 
I think you made the best decision you could for yourself with this situation. It took courage to say no. And when we begin to say no it does make us feel uneasy. Its kind of like learning a whole new language where we are going to question ourselves about if we are saying things the correct way or not.
Thank you, this could be the first time I have actually refused to do something rather than just avoiding the situation and you're so right it feels weird.
Originally Posted by
hopeful4 It seems to be that unless he plans to stop enabling her, and unless he plans to get himself under control, it would be useless. You cannot drag someone else to sobriety. I hope you do find those meetings. I can also add that I think you did the right thing for what my two cents is worth LOL!
We are here, and we support you!
Thank you, I think that's exactly why I refused to be involved, I am working up the courage to face a meeting but I think I will get there.