Originally Posted by
mns1 
I sometimes wonder if people who make comments like that do so because they feel uncomfortable about themselves in the presence of someone who can have a nice time without drinking. In other words, it says way more about them than it does about you.
That was my 'take' on it when I was stopping..including my exAgf..it was 90% projection and 10% jealousy by my math( I'm horrible at math LOL),but I know when I was seriously starting to apply the sober 'brakes' and speaking with some friends who were sober, that seemed to be the consensus.