Originally Posted by
biminiblue 
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Like he wants you to do...what exactly? I guess it would be helpful to know what he expects this talk will accomplish, in which case you told him what you believe.
Don't second guess yourself. It's not your job to convince your mother that she has an alcohol problem.
For what it's worth, she knows. You've already spoken up.
They just seem to shout at each other, she hates him and he hates her its quite toxic tbh.
Thank you, im am learning to be stronger but saying no to them still makes me uneasy.