Soul catcher,
Here's the Alanon website:
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/
plus the two for Florida (northern and southern):
http://www.northfloridaal-anon.org/index.htm http://www.southfloridaal-anon.org/
You can find the 12 steps on this website plus literature..
There are multiple Alanon books (you might consider reading the Big Book of Alcoholism as well.)
Don't let a lack of babysitter prevent you from going to a meeting..many meetings offer free babysitting so call the local Alanon meeting and ask..
good luck..