Hi Theprince - Welcome
is your other half your wife?
She may feel that she should have been consulted more before you made the choice, or that you considered the financial repercussions - I dunno.
If I read correctly the choice is made anyway - so back your decision.
its a bold choice but if you can really work on your recovery it's a choice that will pay dividends.
what kind of professional help are you going for?
D