Yikes, Emily! I imagine you've head all of this swarming in your head already. Can't begin to tell you what to do. I'll just keep you in my thoughts that all turns out the way it is meant to for whatever has to be learned. I know that sounds stupid or maybe on the fence but I can see both sides and I don't know what I would do. It reminds me of The Fiddler on the Roof when the father talks to himself and says on one hand.....on the other hand....on one hand....on the another hand...bottom line there's is no crystal ball to see into to know the best outcome is going to be. So Yikes!
J