Old 09-23-2018, 04:35 AM
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Arpeggioh
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I imagine that, at 20 years old, your biggest obstacle to giving up alcohol is fear of missing out (or FOMO, as the kids say!) on some fun. Totally understandable, and yes, people your age are known for partying it up on weekends; most of them outgrow that scene as adult responsibilities start to settle on them. For those of us with alcohol addiction, we never outgrow it, and carry it into our adult lives with devastating results.

Try to think of these things you'll be missing out on:
*Hangovers
*Bad decisions
*DUI convictions (see thread referenced above)
*Early-onset health problems
*Embarrassing behaviors
*Money literally p*ssed away

If you are already aware that you have a problem with drinking, my only promise to you is that things will certainly get worse the longer you drink; the math is irrefutable in that equation.

There are many ways to get and stay sober, but desire to do so is probably the most important factor. You sound almost convinced it's the right thing for you! I think that it probably is, despite your age. I wonder how many others here look back and fervently wish they had given up booze when they were younger, before the wreckage really got started...

Let's not drink today! Best regards, Grampaw
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