It is wonderful that you are married, but I am concerned that you and your new husband are unable to live together, because he still lives with his family. This seems to indicate that there are underlying problems there, in addition to his alcoholism.
I get a tremendous amount of help, support and information from attending Al-anon meetings. Sometimes, I go to as many as three meetings a week. If you have many alcoholics in your life, Al-anon would help you a lot.
Keep coming back here, too. The people here are supportive and helpful.
Robin