Snickers123,
He needs help. More than I can provide.
This is key! You are lucky to have come to this realization. I wasted a lot of time and went through years of heartache before realizing that the addict/alcoholic's problem is way bigger than anything I can do to try and "affect" it or get them to stop! Try to remember this is so true if you start to falter and as atalose said: We tend to reminisce about all the good parts. We get ourselves all caught up in how it was and how it could have been .
Play the tape all the way through to the end. Take good care of yourself!
Peace,
B.