Originally Posted by
Glenjo99 
Just when I decided not to go lol.......now I feel I should go. Indecisiveness (another codependent trait).
lol - how fun (not fun!)
You know, some things are just not important. If you were trying to decide the color of your roofing material for the house that will cost you 8000.00 and you will have to look at it for 25 years - well yes, take a few days to ponder.
For little things like this - let it go. Make a decision and go with it, no matter what (unless the codie bus drives by to take you to the meeting, don't want to miss out on that).
When you start to second guess - tell yourself no - I have made my decision, that's done (now what kind of tea will I make myself).