I’m 42 given everything up vice wise.
My sex drive has gone down.
Mostly due to having a kid,
Partly due to giving up the booze.
I find it not worth the pent up sexual frustration of waiting to have sex at a certain point in the day/night. So I try not to entertain any fantasies that pop in to my head.
Just takes me down a road of resentment which isn’t good for alcoholics.
I’m still trying to fix the sex part of our relationship, but it gets me down. Not the same as it used to be. Maybe it’s an age thing, maybe there’s been one too many rejections. Maybe it’s just all in my head.
Just my experience