Originally Posted by
SaveHer 
All of the dates prior to this last one were perfectly fine, but now I'm questioning my judgment. Am I suffering from PTSD because of my ex? Or are these legitimate red flags?
I'd say you are seeing the true colors showing through.
I would find ALL the behaviors you listed to be unacceptable in someone I was dating. If I were dating, I would expect to be treated with respect, kindness and honesty, and I don't see much of that in what you describe.
Trust what you've learned so far--this is only a taste of what you'd be signing up for. He's got his best foot forward right now, and things will likely get worse as time passes. Remember, dating is to learn about your potential partner. If the signs aren't good, then OUT THE DOOR w/him! And at only 7 dates in, you don't owe him a damn thing, in my book...
Just out of curiosity, the remark about millenials and what they like to drink--would I be correct in imagining this guy is significantly older than you?