Originally Posted by
Gottalife 
You know more about her than I do, but this seems just a little pessimistic to me. Are you saying that she has tried to sober up and been unable to be honest with anyone? I mean you would need to work with someone who appears to be trying for quite a while before you could put them in the incapable of being honest group.
The original poster is quoting AA text and one piece that I definitely don't agree with, basically saying their way or you are defective somehow.