Originally Posted by
FeelingGreat 
Awal, now you've had the big revelation, do you think your feelings of anger, disappointment etc are getting through to him, even if you think you're hiding them? You've had a huge shock lately, realising the possible extent of his dinking, but he's also lost his cosy little world where he thought he was fooling you and he's probably getting defensive in advance.
Yes..hes possibly picking up the vibes. Disappointment...resentment...confusion and the rest of the emotions felt at this discovery. Why he thinks i should shoulder all the blame for everything without me defending myself l will never understand...maybe the narcissist putting in an appearance?