Originally Posted by
SmallButMighty 
*hugs* Awal
No matter what his excuse is, there is no reason whatsoever that he be nasty with you. He could be grumpy because he hasn't been able to drink the way he wants to, he also could have snuck far more to drink than you realize. My AXH was a pro and deceptive drinking. Either way, his moods are HIS to own, it s not your burden... no matter how much he tries to convince you otherwise.
My AXH ruined several anniversary "celebrations". I'm sorry this is happening to you too.
I'm cancelling any future holidays...as much as l want it this cannot be a normal relationship. I will have holidays alone and he can stay home and put another nail in his coffin. He won't ruin any more for me. Im guessing alcoholism and narcissistic behaviour can go hand in hand? He provoked a response by the silent treatment then fired all guns at me when l asked what was wrong. Silly me...fell for it again.