I get it, I think
I'm just not used to getting out and doing it for ME! I don't want to leave her behind you know, but I'm not going to use my energy trying to drag her along with me either.
It kind of feels like I'm making a new friend (a grumpy, twitchy, craving tobacco friend today, but a friend all the same) and I like her.
Thanks for your replies, thanks a lot
J
xxx