Hi John
if you receive a PM you think breaks the rules, you can always report it like any other post.
Like Scott just said, I don't see any 'slamming' in this thread tho - just folks posting honest responses to your honesty about not quite quitting. (I'm not 'piling on' - Scott and I genuinely posted at the same time
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I actually see a lot of care and concern for you here, John.
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