Thanks. So before he passed out. He started getting aggravated but I guess he felt like he couldn’t yell at me because I wouldn’t engage? Idk so the truth is out. He’s ticked off because I spend too much time at al anon and reading self help books. He doesn’t feel like he can “connect” with me. He doesn’t know what I like anymore. Well that makes 2 of us. I’ve spent the last 6 years or so catering to him so i don’t even know what I like anymore. I didn’t say this of course. I wish I could tell him we don’t do anything because he’s always drinking. I don’t want to hang out with him when he’s like that. We make plans, he gets drunk so I go and do it alone. I feel like he chooses not to participate.
I still struggle with letting this crap go. Tomorrow he won’t remember it and I’ll Have to be over it too.