Originally Posted by
lessgravity 
Oh my. That doesn't sound like where you should be focusing your efforts.
I'm focussing my efforts on keeping him happy...and if he is happy my life is easier..if it takes a certain kind of liquid to achieve that so be it. So ultimately I'm focussing on improving my life...when he chooses to improve his l will support him all the way but until that happens im looking after no.1