Originally Posted by
Mango212 
invite God into the process
ask what His will is for me
Sounds like a great plan anytime.
Yes and no. I think I need a new conception of God.
I have agnostic and atheist friends who are double winners and they also do this. "God of our understanding" is the key point. This understanding can be of our choosing and continually changing as we change.
Would you mind explaining what "God of your understanding" is for your agnostic and atheist friends?
And how our understanding of that God can change as we change?
Because I think I am at this point of my recovery, but am STUCK. I could use a push in understanding this.