Originally Posted by
atalose 
I’m glad your son is on the mend and that in his time of need your exah was able to step up and be sober to help him.
But I am concerned that you are still allowing your ex to have control over your future happiness. If your happiness with a new life relies on the sobriety of someone else, it’s like you are still stuck living that old life aren’t you?
Yep. I've no option on that tho. If he can't or wont take over some of the care of our autistic adult son I can't get married unless my future intended moves here. End of. There is no one else who will do it. That's the realities I live with.
