Ladybird579

LOl. My best male friend. He helped me by dating me to socialise me again with no pressure. I'd not dated in 28 years lol. I'd never have been able to if he'd not eased me in. He's always encouraged me when I was feeling useless and ugly and made me feel beautiful even when I've been in a tent for 3 weeks with no hot water or hairdryer. He's calm and loving and very sweet to me. I can be my absolute self with him with no pretence. Things evolved over a very long time. I realised I was missing him a lot and it turned out he was me too.

Anyway I saw him a few weeks ago and he asked me to marry him. I said yes. It will be a process cos he works in a different country and I have my adult sons here still living with me. They do not want to move. IF exah could stay sober I'd have a ticket outta here but there are no guarantees. We will have to see how things pan out. He's coming back at Christmas. My boys like him and am hopeful.