I am doing both.
Staying sober, 3 1/2 years now, and living with my active drinking husband.
In the beginning, I thought I would have to choose, but as I went deeper into recovery, I learned how to let him tend to his side of the street. It wasn't easy and I spent a lot of time on the friends & family side soaking up the wisdom there
I am glad I didn't make any rash decisions in early recovery.
