Old 07-26-2018, 12:39 PM
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entropy1964
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Is your husband an alcoholic? If not you should be able to set really clear boundaries with him. The trouble starts when the other spouse has issues with alcohol as well. If he doesn't maybe agree upon an alcohol free home.

Is he an enabler? This is really complicated. Because its a 'thing' as much as the alcoholism. And the two types can get locked into a deadly dance. Both needing 'recovery' and a new way to communicate and inter-relate.
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