Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
I was like that with my XAH. I spent so much time researching his "slips" that I could have been with the FBI (ha)! Then one day, I just did not anymore. Something clicked in my head and I was able to just let go. I finally had figured out that he had to figure out his own path and that I just could not control it.
Keep working on YOU!!!
Thank you! I am, and maybe that's the change in our situation. I'm so focused on the progress I've made and so excited for more that I just can't worry about him and what he's doing.