moon,
its uncomfortable because, he was molested. as I was also! I've delt with that part of my recovery to the best of my ability. for me it will always be there deep inside. I dont feel strong enough about the subject to help somebody ealse with it. I'm only am strong enough to try and keep it at bay so it doesent cause me to go back out and hide from the pain.(do drugs)
I love him so maybe its just to much for me! I dont want to abandon him in his pain. but a theripist is trained in these kind of issues. I'm not!