It’s so hard to do!! I’m a thinker by nature, and a born skeptic, lol. What always convinces me is when I see other people have something that I want. I don’t think God hates me enough to single me out for punishment, so that must mean that there is something that I can change about my approach in order to change my results. That inspires me to listen to what people did, really listen, the. adjust as necessary to fit my personality and lifestyle. But it is still hard when 51% of you wants to change but 49% is afraid of it.