Originally Posted by
atalose 
I think when that fear sets in about losing them we tend to grab on harder which just pushes them farther away.
It’s best to not have any expectations right now about anything and especially a future with him. He’s not going to be able to reassure you of something he may not even know himself.
Maybe before you chat with him about boundaries, discuss here on SR what kind of boundaries are you seeking for yourself. Sometimes we mix up rules and boundaries.
No expectations is a good idea and it almost feels like I'm starting to finally resign myself to the fact we may not be in each other's life as much. Thanks I will discuss my boundaries in here first, not sure what ones are helpful just now.