dawnrising…..I am referring to "victim advocate" when I use the term "court advocate.....
They act as a form of support to you as you go through the court proceedings....they can attend hearings with you, and explain various court proceedings to you.
they are volunteers....and, you can get one by calling your local domestic violence organization and asking for one.
don't let the term "domestic violence" discourage you. There are various types of abuse....not just physical. You sound, to me like a victim of abuse. You sound intimidated and frightened of him...?
You can call the domestic violence hotline,,,and, they can help you locate your local organization...
……..Domestic Violence hotline.....1-800-799-7233...…
I think it would make a difference to have such a person by your side...
(they do not give legal advice...they are for your emotional support)….
***when you talk to the domestic violence worker...do NOT minimize his actions and your dread and fear of him and the impact that this is having on you....