Originally Posted by
princessosceola 
This is my first time on this forum and I feel like I just read my life!!
Yeah, it's pretty incredible how many of these threads I've read and I'm like YES that's ME TOO. It's actually pretty sad when you think about it, but you are TRULY not alone. I think Al-anon refers to it as YANA.
I find a lot of hope in these threads. It's hard for family and friends to relate, but people here just know.