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Old 07-11-2018, 07:40 PM
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Worriedwifey88
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Originally Posted by ScottFromWI View Post
That's not surprising for an active alcoholic to hide bottles and think no one will notice. If you are asking if its an overreaction to tell him that you found them, it's definitely not. But I don't know that it will have much effect on him moving forward if he's not ready to stop. That is a decision he will have to make for himself.
It’s rough because it makes it difficult for me. I’m actively dumping out liquor that came into the house by means of someone else.
He told me today of a friend that just got out of the hospital (drinking), and then he took off to see a movie (I didn’t go because I have to get up early).
And of course it got me thinking and all I had to do was look in the hamper...
I guess I’m worried that if I address my concerns he will fall to pieces crying.
I also don’t know if I’m overreacting in terms of the amount. He frequently says that he’s a big man and he can handle a lot more than I. But that’s 6 bottles (not counting random beers!) in no more than 2 weeks
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