Originally Posted by
Maudcat 
Hi, Glenjo.
Welcome.
This is a hurtful situation for you, and I am sorry for your sadness and confusion.
There is a saying around here: when someone shows you who they are, believe them.
Your friend is showing you that you are not in his orbit just now.
Difficult as it is, I would recommend no texting, no communication, and moving on with your life.
Life with an addict, even one in recovery, is a hard road.
Peace.
It's very hurtful, it's like being punished for something you didn't do if that makes sense. Even though he is showing me who he is, I still want to hear from him but I obviously didn't mean as much to him as I thought. How can someone be your best friend one day and the next not.....don't understand it.