Originally Posted by
Nonsensical 
There is a recurring theme in your posts in this thread that
you had this coming; you deserved this.
I'd be careful there. There's a very strong probability that her drinking is not your fault.
Even if she tells you it is.
I'm glad your step-daughter has someone reliable around today. Well done, you.
Step 4 talks about resentment. I am resenting the fact, that all during my drunkenness, and now, I have given her and her daughter everything. A beautiful home. A beautiful car. Great school. Paying for her college. Showering her with affection and love. Taking her, her mother, and her daughter in beautiful vacations. Swimming, gymnastics, all the things I was unable to provide my own children. And this is what I get?
I do not deserve THIS.