Originally Posted by
2muchpain 
Just frustrating that I can't just fly up there and help her fix her problems, cause I know I can make some difference if she would let me
. Fortunately for me, I've realized the hard way that I don't have all the answers and to really listen to others
I’m sorry your sister is in such a bad situation John, and I do hope she starts taking her meds again.
Take a look at your 2 statements above for a second though. I think you likely need to start applying some of the knowledge you’ve gained in the second statement and apply it to the first. There’s really only so much you can do to help her too, and beating yourself up because you can’t fix it is harming you. You have come a long way in your own life for certain.