I guess what really concerns me is that if she really had a serious problem, she would not let me know. In the past when she ended up in a hospital, she would tell people that nobody cares about her and that she's pretty much on her own. Don't know why she would say this, since my mother and myself have always been there for her, but the people at the hospital would believe her and not contact us. You'd think based on her history they would know better. Rock and a hard place. John