Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
i think finding another "source" to watch the kid while you get some time away is now in order. you may have to break up your "escapes" but it can still be done.
the EX is a jackass. unreliable and self absorbed. adhere to the parenting plan, and don't ask him for a damn thing. not.one.damn.thing.
Yep. Jackass is right. Last of his visits he insisted he will help me with several projects around the house - and I bought materials. Guess who learned how to caulk a tub? It just blows my mind how he sets up these little “traps” just to be in a position to “reject” me all over again. Told DS he wanted to grill for Father’s Day with him - never happened because “he needed an AA meeting” all of the sudden
Just. Barf. Boy, bye!