I have to agree with AnvilheadII,
I have had several months sober under my belt and relapsed at parties, dates, and other social situations. Now, I have accepted that I'm not able to attend these things...yet.
I am almost 5 months sober and wouldn't even consider going to a party that serves booze. Way too risky. Just my thoughts and experiences. I hope you can put your sobriety first!
And, I never got any standing ovations for quitting. I had to learn to be my own cheerleader!